The experiences we have in life and how we perceive them is completely down to us. No one else can make us perceive a situation in a certain way or experience what we do. It's all down to us. Many of us will say things such as "It's because of ....... that I can't......", or "It must be my fault that I'm feeling this way because I deserve unhappiness"... or you may even say, "I can't be like..... because.........".
STOP STOP STOP.
You are giving away your power and no one in this world deserves to have that. They have their own anyway, don't give them anymore. It's like adding extra sources of energy to a power station, don't do it. God created us all with our own power supply, our own telephone connection to God, and our own inner power to use for the good of all.
It is important how you speak to yourself, about yourself and with others. It's important that you always try to come from a place of love, pure divine unconditional love. What's more important is how you chose to behave in and perceive situations. We all know what a undesirable situation looks, sounds and feels like, but how many of us know how it looks, sounds and feels when you turn a undesirable situation into the most magickal and marvelous situation ever???? But sometimes this can be hard. But if you are willing to try, just that willingness from you will move mountains. Being willing to see things from a different perspective, and trying to respond to them in a different way is the key to changing your life.
Take back your Power! We have spent so much of our lives giving other people the power in our lives. Situations where we may have done this include; my accountant will sort my finances out, my husband can tidy the garden, my friend will get me through this hard time, my instructor will get this weight off me, I'm ugly, I'm not pretty enough, I'm not slim enough, I'm not good enough etc. The list is endless. Why are you not being pro-active and saying; "I will sort my finances out, I am going to tidy the garden, I will get through this hard time because I am strong, I am going to be a healthy weight, I'm beautiful as I am, I am perfect exactly as I am today, I am the best version of me that I can be right now with the knowledge and understanding I have and I am going to commit to hard work to achieve this".
The first set of sayings are examples of how we give our power away. You sound like you're a defenseless soul that can't get through the day without your metaphorical guru by your side. The second set of sayings are examples of how we take back our power within and become our own guru!
So how to become your own guru?
You already are a magnificent and beautiful person. Yes you are! You are alive, and you are reading this blog and for that you have lots to be thankful for. You are willing to change already, you're already wanting to improve your life, because you were drawn to read this blog. The Law of Attraction brought you here because on some level you were seeking an answer to becoming a more empowered spiritual being without becoming egotistical. So well done for getting here!
The key to being your very own guru is to believe in yourself wholeheartedly. That means, believing your gut feelings, believing that you know what is best for you, believing that you can and will achieve everything that you set out to achieve, believing that you are truly perfect as you are.
That last one can be a tricky one, but it really is true. You are perfect as you are. You've just spent so much time hiding under the bushel that you've forgotten just how much light you radiate.
Think of yourself as Tinkerbell, do you remember when her light was fading and it was all because people were declaring that Faeries didn't exist. But then children everywhere began to say the magic words... *I BELIEVE* "I believe in faeries, I do, I do, I do".
That is just like you! You spent so much time telling yourself that you can't do this or cant achieve that or are no good, not worthy .... blah blah blah... that you really need to start telling yourself that you believe in you.
Repeat after me;
" I BELIEVE IN MYSELF, I DO, I DO, I DO - I BELIEVE IN MYSELF, I DO, I DO, I DO"
Keep repeating this new mantra of yours, and one day you'll say it while smiling, and you'll feel happy, you'll even find that one day you say it to yourself looking in the mirror.
Louise L Hay, highly recommends *mirror work* which is where I first came across the method a few years ago when reading, "You can Heal your Life", and while it can be really hard to do, when you begin believing in yourself you'll smile to yourself with pure divine love as you find yourself chanting your new mantra while gazing adoringly at yourself.
It's time to believe in YOU and stand up and be heard!
It's time to turn your can'ts into cans and your dreams into plans people!
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